The Problematic of Work Life Balance, Part 2: A Project of the Self

Debjani Chakravarty

Here’s part 2 of Debjani Chakravarty’s  essay on work life balance. A PhD in the Women and Gender Studies Program at Arizona State Debjani ChakravartyUniversity who worked as a journalist and a social worker in India, Debjani is also an artist. You can view her beautiful artwork here. Comments below will thrill us both.

Neo traditional discourses and the media constructed mommy wars point at the fallacy of women having too much on their plates. The answer lies in choosing one role set, preferably home and child bearing over paid work. Motherhood is aligned with a discourse of citizenship and duties by the state. The question of a mother’s rights is articulated only by feminists in this post feminist era where women’s problems are framed as having solutions in increased consumption. The solution can range from taking a work life balance quiz in Cosmo or Oprah to setting up a home office with the latest technological gadgets. The question of work life balance becomes a project of the self, with the issue state and workplace policies not considered by the very women oppressed by multiple role expectations, smarting under immensely demanding gender identities.

Rose (1999) formulated a “critical sociology” of freedom using Foucauldian notions of genealogy and governmentality[1]. He offers alternative ways of thinking about contemporary regimes of government that launch projects of the self as a project put together for the greater common good. Women thus become, in Rose’s formulation: “self contained atoms of individualistic capitalism.” Rose writes, in a gender neutral (gender blind?) fashion:

“Are we to be governed as members of a flock to be led, as children to be coddled and educated, as a human resource to be exploited, as members of a population to be managed, as legal subjects with rights, as responsible citizens of an interdependent society, as autonomous individuals with our own illimitable aspirations, as value driven members of a moral community…..”[2]

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And this exactly is what seems to be the problem with the work-life balance discourse. It germinates from the project of the self-governance, from the project of self responsibilization and autonomy that assumes certain conditions for autonomy that do not exist for many people. The state or the economy does nothing to create those enabling conditions. Women and minorities are left to their own devices to make the best of an unfair, inequitable system.

The Handbook of Girls’ and Women’s Psychological Health (2006) states: “A large number of empirical investigations have shown that employment can actually benefit women, including mothers, just as it can benefit men, including fathers.[3] Nor is it simply paid labor that fuels well being. A growing body of evidence shows that people who engage in multiple roles report better physical and mental health than people with fewer roles…..in practical terms having several roles provides important tools for both women and men to fulfill family obligations (354).”[4] The income, the increased social capital and social networks, access to greater information and socialization are processes that help people lead fuller lives. However, there need to be progressive family friendly social policies that facilitate a citizen and worker’s multiple roles. The labor market and households are parts of an interconnected system, and one’s performance in these cannot be judged on an individual basis. Yet social welfare and fiscal policies operate on the notions of traditional gender roles and public and private spaces.

McDowell (2004) argues that the dominance of an individualistic ethos pervades both the labor market and the welfare state, undermining notions of collective welfare and an ethic of care, within the wider context of the hegemony of a neoliberal ideology in global as well as national politics.[5]

If an ethic of care is to be (re)instituted, it will demand wide-reaching changes in the ways in which organizations and institutions operate at a range of spatial scales as well as new sets of responsibilities towards co-workers, members of households and the wider public. Work life balance is not so about individual choices and impossible goals, as it is about balancing individual rights and duties, it is about the state paying attention to lived realities of workers and parents.


[1] Foucault’s (1991) notion of governmentality embraces a notion on power beyond a perspective that centers either on consensus or on violence; it links technologies of the self (self development, self discipline) with technologies of rule, the constitution of the subject to the formation of the state.

[2] Rose, N (1999)Powers of freedom. Cambridge University Press. Pp 41

[3] See, Worell, J & C. Goodheart (eds) (2006) Handbook of Girls’ and Women’s Psychological Health. NYC: oxford University Press

[4] Some citations taken out for purposes of flow.

[5] McDowell, L (2004) Work, workfare, work/life balance and an ethic of care. Progress in Human Geography 28,2 pp. 145–163

3 Comments

  1. Lisa Gates on July 11, 2009 at 3:35 pm

    Okay, I love this inquiry. I’m as heady as the next woman, and I realize this is a scholarly approach to the issues, yet my first comment is that if Debjani wants to locate this discussion broadly, she needs to speak the language of the people she most wants to reach–those on the margins of accessibility.

    Moving on, work life balance is as much a spiritual issue as it is a social or political one, and we need people working at all levels of the issue. For me as a coach in this field, the work is more grass roots at first, getting to the center of one’s life; what you want, don’t want, and the vision you see for yourself. Put the oxygen mask on yourself first, you know?

    Once the personal, intrinsic, foundational work is accomplished, women are challenged and empowered to speak, demand, lead, change, rabble rouse and get raucous. What that looks like in action is leading the charge for things like flexwork in their organizations, or shifting careers entirely, or letting go of having it all, or performing June Cleaver-like pirouettes.

    I resist the notion that I am pandering to a stereotype need. I do, however, use the stereotype to attract women into the deeper conversation.

    We have to first be with women where they are.

    My 2 cents…

  2. Debjani Chakravarty on July 12, 2009 at 3:36 pm

    I like speaking the language of those that I most want to reach, and have done so at various times, as a journalist– or sometimes working with people not just at the “margins of accessibility” but completely without access, at the periphery of and outside the modern political and economic system. I literally spoke their language by learning three new languages and dialects that most people I know haven’t even heard the names of. In such dire spaces questions of work life balance never emerge, there’s nothing to balance. It’s about survival, dramatic as it sounds.

    However, as you rightly point out Lisa, the writings here ARE part of a scholarly inquiry and attempt to reach a particular audience. Plus they are relevant to a certain place and time. I do not wish to insult my readers’ intelligence by assuming that they’d instinctively withdraw from scholarly/complex discussions, that I have to simplify an issue that has already been oversimplified, even to “locate a discussion broadly.”

    I am not a work life balance coach, I am merely a woman struggling with the issue on a personal and abstract level. My understanding of “grassroots” does not have an individualistic orientation as yours does. I was trained as a sociologist and although I am aware that almost everything can be framed in a spiritual rhetoric, I prefer to look at the socio-political aspects first. I have an evidence based understanding of the fact that what hinders someone, especially a female someone or a minority someone from “getting to the center of one’s life” is socially constructed. And I am skeptical of putting on oxygen masks (fatal as it may be) before I know at what cost those masks are coming to me and who doesn’t get to wear them and who does not even know such masks exist, to further your idiom.

    I appreciate your good advice and I continue to hope that “scholarly” discussions build bridges and connect conversations and dismantle linear, stereotyped thinking. Resisting stereotypes, as you point out, IS one of the objectives here.

  3. Gloria Feldt on July 12, 2009 at 3:37 pm

    I’d love to see some real data on the ” media constructed mommy wars”. To what extent do they exist beyond the media construct?

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